Rapper/actor Ice T’s main squeeze, Coco, posted a light hearted blog on how to keep a man. And now she’s getting called out by bloggers and women in the black community who aren’t to happy with the blond bombshell’s “advice”. Coco wrote, ”LADIES & GENTLEMEN…the most IMPORTANT advice I can give is to make sure you listen to one another!!!!! TALK A LOT!! I think the reason that Ice and I have made it in the celebrity world for so long is because we constantly communicate.” Coco went on to say that changing into your man’s favorite outfit, giving him a body rub or licking and kissing his feet will help keep the romance alive. I can’t say that I’m a huge fan of Coco. Her very wild, sexy lifestyle can be overwhelming to say the least. But I read her blog post and have to say that any woman (including me) could have written something like that. It wasn’t groundbreaking. Her main point is keep the communication  and sex alive.  To be fair, she didn’t point out her race in the blog or make a point of saying a black woman can’t keep a black man. She and Ice T are eight years married strong, but her sex/slut appeal has earned her wide cattiness among women who, fair or not, choose to hate on the bootylicious blond. But, ladies, if this were Dr. Phil’s wife talking about how to keep a marriage alive when a couple has celebrity status and works together, no one would be leaving comments like this, “Oh yeah, her brain game is probably on point too; [he] probably keeps her jaws extremely busy.”  IJS.