Dallas Moms: Do you tip your child’s day care teacher?

Dallas moms, I have a question. Do you tip your child’s day care teacher(s)? I received a written request for a “monetary love offering” from my child’s day care in honor of Teacher Appreciation Week this week. And I’ve spent the last few days flustered, wondering what I am supposed to do. Frankly, I’m a little offended for being asked to give money. At Easter, I made a basket for the teachers, and I probably would have given them some sort of similar gift this week. I thought about just ignoring the note, but they have mentioned it in the room as I have picked him up. Now, I’m stuck. If I don’t give, what happens to my kid? And if I do give, how much do I give? Does the senior teacher get more? Do I have to tip more even though my child is there the shortest amount of time each day? Ugh! It makes me angry to even think about it. And concerned about when another appreciation or honor day or holiday comes up, and when I will be asked to give again.

Look, I understand how hard it is to make a living on a day care teacher’s salary. I was a pre-school teacher for years, but not once did I ever ask for or receive cash as compensation for caring for someone’s child; that was called my pay check. As a teacher now, I am prohibited from taking any sort of gift or love offering or even a peppermint from a student, and I believe that’s how it should be. On the other hand, times are tough and if my son’s teachers are struggling, maybe this is the bonus they need to keep coming to work, to keep taking care of him. I get that. It’s hard to earn extras in childcare settings. But I pay an insane amount in tuition so asking me to give on top of that just doesn’t seem fair. So tell me why I hit the ATM this morning anyway? As much as I want to take a strong stance on this, I gotta think of my kid. Moms, tell me this isn’t the normal policy at all day care centers? Because I can’t afford to tip every teacher for doing her job!

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Am I Wrong to Be Mad at the Rangers Fans Who Kept the Foul Ball?

Worst Couple via Deadspin

Update: The couple in the Rangers kerfuffle have responded the Ballpark outrage. The engaged couple says they were ”unaware” that young Cameron  was so upset. Even little Cameron’s parents say they aren’t mad at the foul-ball-taking strangers that sat next to them. “I really don’t think they knew,” the boy’s mother said. “I mean, it’s loud there. He had his back to them and I really don’t think it was anything malicious. I don’t think they did it on purpose or anything else, ” Crystal Shores told WFAA. I don’t think they were being malicious either, just oblivious. The couple in question say they were just so excited to be at the game (and into each other) they simply weren’t aware of the situation around them. But they later offered the little boy the baseball after someone from the Rangers dugout gave him one so I guess they were aware afterall. Plenty of people have responded to the controversy. And quite a few people say they wouldn’t have given the boy the ball just because he was crying. Really, what would you tell your toddler or nephew? Suck it up, kid. Life isn’t fair. I don’t think that’s the issue at all.

Maybe when I become a more experienced mother I’ll be more understanding, but it wasn’t just that they caught the ball, because that happens, it was their behavior–taking pictures with the ball, snuggling each other–afterwards that has everyone upset. Sorry couple (whose names I won’t post because I’m being nice) but seeing as how you are both parents (of seven kids between them) you have to understand why people are so upset. Wouldn’t you be? It wasn’t my child and I’m still mad. And I’m not sure I’d be as gracious as Cameron’s parents were. And I’m not the only one. WFAA has polled viewers: 54% of respondents say the couple should have given the ball back, another 70+% (can’t find the exact number) say the couple has been wrongly criticized. Maybe, but I bet the next time they go to a baseball game they’ll pay extra close attention to the toddlers around them.

From Thursday:
Take a good look at the couple in this picture. They are seated to the left of a crying toddler and have been dubbed by Deadspin as “Worst People Ever” to catch a foul ball. At last night’s Rangers-Yankees game in Arlington, the couple in this picture caught a foul ball tossed into the stands by Mitch Moreland in the eighth inning. Many fans went for the ball including the little boy in this picture who had his  glove on ready to catch it. Instead of giving the ball to the crying toddler seated next to them, the greedy couple kept it (see the video below). But wait, it gets worse. They then posed and took pictures with the ball in front of the little boy. And worse still, they proceeded to hug and snuggle each other while seated next to the little boy and his parents. Much of this was caught on camera, and Yankee’s play-by-play man, Michael Kay,  called the couple “very cold”, “unbelievable” and “oblivious”. Someone from the Rangers’ dugout eventually tossed the crying boy a ball.  But it’s not the first time this has happened at a Rangers game adds Mike Drago of the Dallas Morning News.  For this little boy there is a happy ending here of sorts, but if you see this couple at the Ballpark, give them a piece of your mind!

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Local Knitters Send Crocheted Uteruses to Lawmakers

Uterus: governmentfreevjj.com

Little late on this but wanted to give a shout out to the local ladies knitting uteruses for Governor Rick Perry and other lawkmakers who they say have cut funding for necessary health care for women including access to birth control. Dubbed “The Snatchel Project”, the nationwide effort, spearheaded by Government Free VJJ, is calling on women knitters and crotcheters to send a message to lawmakers: leave our baby makers alone.  ”Here’s your own uterus; now keep your hands off mine,” Oak Cliff resident Kimberlyn Crowe told WFAA last week. She is one of a group of local ladies participating in the effort. The knitted uteruses (or uteri) sort of look like faceless baby dolls with braids, but Government Free VJJ offers knitting patterns for other female parts. “You know what? When somebody laughs, they open up,” Crowe told WFAA. “And when you open up, you can begin a dialogue, and you can find your common ground.” Knit one, purl two to that!

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Ads on the Katy Trail?

I walked up on this add Saturday during my usual Katy Trail stroll. The picture doesn’t do it justice, but it’s an ad for the upcoming Byron Nelson Tournament. And it’s on the trail. Not to the side, like most of the running advertisements are, but right there as you walk-blade-stroller-run-bike by. And it bothered me! Is no place sacred anymore? I mean, we are bombarded with advertisements everywhere including my condos that have a specific no solicitation policy, yet I still get ads for Carmine’s Pizzeria every week or so. But this! This was the last straw.

Part of the joy of the Katy Trail is the peace and tranquility I get walking with my son or by myself. I enjoy my strolls. Sure I get cursed at by the occasional cyclist or yipped out by dogs, but who doesn’t? But over the last year or so, more and more signs have made their way to the Katy Trail. Most have been banners thanking donors, advertising runs or asking for support. And let’s not forget those weird signs on the side nobody gets or pays attention to. But now stickers on the pathway? Really? REALLY? Is the trail hurting that bad for money? I get why there are running advertisements–as it is a trail. But why golfing ads? If anyone can just buy space, who’s to stop Nike or Adidas from cluttering the trail? Ugh. I don’t know. I’m just annoyed by the blatant attempt to get my attention. It has. Just not in a good way. Join me! #KeepKatyClean

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Local Schools Crack Down on Sexy Prom Dresses

Yesterday the Wall Street Journal profiled high schools across the country cracking down on prom dresses: sexy prom dresses to be precise. And one of the schools featured in the story was Sunnyvale High School. Like other high schools, Sunnyvale has a detailed dress code including a section on pinning verses sewing inserts into dresses (that have high slits, cut outs or low cleavage). “My fear was for them to cover something up temporarily just to get in the door and then make their way to the rest room and remove that,” Principal Zachary Hobbs told the Wall Street Journal. The horror! A teenage girl trying to dress like a woman she’s not quite yet on prom night. Didn’t we all do that?

Other schools, including Mesquite ISD, have put together Power Point presentations that include examples of appropriate and inappropriate dresses. Mesquite’s 2010 PPT had arrows pointing to the vulgar no-no spots and examples of immodest wear (see photo to the left). One wonders what exactly school administrators are trying to prevent or prohibit by cracking down on prom dresses. Because stores are selling super sexy prom dresses and parents are buying them. So if mom and dad let their daughter walk out of the house with nothing but a string of beads holding her boobs up, who is a high school principal or librarian to stop her from partying at prom? And just because a girl is covered doesn’t make a dress less sexy. Think Sofia Vergara. Even with just her shoulders showing she oozes va-va-va-voom. And there are plenty of buxom teenage girls who can fill out a sheath dresses just fine. Continue reading

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Gordon Keith Defends Females, We’re Not Dumb!

Gordon Keith, a wise man. /WFAA.com

Thank you, Gordon Keith. Women are not dumb. Women don’t deserve to be video taped and labeled stupid for over thinking a math problem. If you aren’t quite sure what I’m talking about, let me catch you up to speed. On a road trip to Boise, Idaho, Travis Chambers–heretofore referred to as Mr. Dummyvideo taped his wife struggling to answer a math question: If you are traveling 80 miles per hour, how long does it take you to go 80 miles. Think you know the answer? Wait. Think about it. If you said anything other than one hour (corrected from previous post: see comment below!), you’re wrong. And apparently so were a lot of women including Mrs. Chambers. Chelsea uses some interesting math skills instead of simply thinking about the question. The video, which was posted on You Tube, has encouraged fellow Dummies (I’m talking about married men) to pose the same question to their wives presumably hoping their wives would also sound as silly (or stupid?) as Chelsea. Continue reading
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Paula Deen Has Type II Diabetes, Deep Fried Hypocrite?

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Butter Queen Paula Deen has type II diabetes. And she’s had diabetes for three years yet has kept the diagnosis a secret. ”I wanted to bring something to the table when I came forward and I’ve always been one to think I bring hope,” she told Al Roker. That ”something” would be a new health campaign dubbed “Diabetes in a New Light” and working as a paid spokesperson for drug manufactuerer Novo Nordisk. Oh, and she doesn’t plan on altering her southern recipes too much either (you know, the ones that likely got her sick in the first place). “Of course, I will continue to share my favorite Southern recipes, just like my mama, grandmother and family shared with me over the years. And now, I’ll be adding a little bit of a lighter touch to some of these wonderful dishes,” she said. On the New Light website (which has ads for diabetes drugs) she writes, “When you look at managing your diabetes in a new light, with healthy habits and a little encouragement, and a treatment plan that works for you, you can manage your diabetes and manage to live the life you want.” Umm…wasn’t her entire appeal about NOT cooking with “healthy habits”. In fact, she made a point of not doing it at every turn. And made millions in the process! She helped Americans on their way to type II diabetes (note: there are often genetic factors associated with type II diabetes but more and more lifestyle choices effect whether or not you will develop type II diabetes) and kept doing it even when she knew she had diabetes and now we are supposed to listen to her health journey. Chef Anthony Bourdain was soo right (According to E!, he called Deen out and said her food was ”f–king bad for you” and labeled her the “most dangerous person to America”).  Bourdain told Eater.com, “When your signature dish is hamburger in between a doughnut, and you’ve been cheerfully selling this stuff knowing all along that you’ve got type 2 diabetes… It’s in bad taste if nothing else.” Not that I condone Bourdain’s activities (and he doesn’t either), but they pale in comparison to the lifestyle and food choices Deen and her sons have profited from. And now the about face they will continue to profit from. I agree with Nancy Nichols at D Magazine. It makes me sick! Especially considering all the people who don’t have a choice about diabetes. The type I kids who fight daily for a healthy lifestyle and relief and with such a huge obesity and diabetes epidemic in this country (and city). It’s a shame that she managed to keep cooking so unhealthily for so long. And it’s even more of a shame that she is ill and will struggle (as so many do) managing her diabetes and learning to cook, eat and think in a different way.

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Waiting on Baby, Wondering About Motherhood

Like so many of you moms out there, I’m excited to meet my baby. Unfortunately, I’m STILL waiting to meet him, and the temptation of elective induction sounds so good right now. Trust! Everyone has an opinion on how to get him out–I’ve tried them all! But lately I’ve shunned the public because of blatant stares, rude and inappropriate comments about my size (WHOA! Are you carrying twins? You’re gonna explode!) and because I only want to wear sweatpants and slippers. Continue reading

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New Study: Lady Bloggers Making Gains on Men

Lady bloggers are gaining ground on male bloggers according to Technocrati’s annual State of the Blogosphere study.  But is female-driven content of equal value or respected as much as male-authored blogs? While women make up roughly 41% of U.S. female bloggers; men still dominate at 59%. And a recent CW33 report on local female bloggers highlighted the most stereotypical aspects of blogging: girl bloggers who talk about girl stuff such as handbags, night life, fashion, makeup. The story did highlight the financial gains women are making–at least one woman in the CW33 interview has managed to make her bag snob opinions make money–it did not discuss the value of the content women are providing. It’s condescending acknowledgment that, yes, women can blog, but it’s fluffy stuff only other women are interested in. Continue reading

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Penn State’s Poor Example is a Lesson to Us All

Do you love football so much that you’d ignore child sexual abuse so long as your team was winning? Penn State seems to. Alumni and students are still upset over Joe Paterno’s dismissal yesterday following a grand jury report that detailed explicit incidences of child sexual abuse by former Penn State assistant coach Jerry Sandusky and repeated non-attempts by Penn State officials to properly address the problem. Many students and alumni wanted Paterno to coach one more game, and students rioted last night on campus bemoaning JoPa’s abrupt departure. Please! Who weeps for people who don’t report child sex abuse to the authorities? Continue reading

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